Nothing is impossible if your willing to try.
Many times situations occur that make you uncomfortable to have to deal with and hard not to become judgemental. When you do investigation it is important to stay neutral and impartial. A situation occured that put me to the test. A well to do man had many assets that were distributed throughout several states. My job was to locate these assets for an upcoming divorce case. The woman in the divorce was portrayed as an uncaring gold digger simply out for what she could get from her wealthy husband. After looking into the situation at hand I came to realize that this was not the case. The wife was very much interested in keeping the marriage together despite the acts of her unfaithful husband. I learned that things are not always what they appear to be and my reputation could have been tarnished had I not researched the case as closely as I did. The first impression was that the husband was devastated by his wifes infidelity. I soon found out that this was an act to avoid his wife from being awarded anything once the divorce was final. People show you what they want you to see especially if it will benefit them or harm them in any way. Not always is that the real truth or the entire story. It is important to look at both sides of the story and verify information to make an accurate judgement when it will effect the lives of others in a very large way for the rest of their lives.