A few suggestions . . .
1. Get a crystal clear vision in your mind of what the successful business you are imagining will look like three years from now. Write out a description of what you are envisioning, in as much detail as possible.
2. Look at each element of your business vision, and map out the steps you need to take to get from where you are now to where you want to be in three years. For example, does the business you envisioned have a building or facility? If so, what are the steps you'll have to take to get it? Try to create a checklist of things to do. (Does the business have products to sell? If so, where did they come from - what steps did you take to find vendors or suppliers? Make a checklist. Are there customers buying those products? If so, how did they hear about the business - was there a marketing or advertising campaign? Make a checklist.) As you can imagine, there are literally hundreds of things to consider like that, so you just take them one at a time and think them through -- making a checklist for each of all the things that have to get done. (A good SCORE counselor can help you identify those steps.)
3. For each of those elements you considered, ask yourself which thing on each checklist you need to do
first. Then ask yourself if you have the knowledge, skills, experience, strengths, assets, contacts, and/or resources you need to do that thing
right now. If you do, then
do it, mark it off the list, and move on to the next thing. If you don't have what you need to do it right now, then your first "to do" item will be to learn or find or meet or acquire the something or someone you need in order to take that step -- so you'll pursue finding that knowledge or person or resource.
4. Keep at it until you have what you need, all the tasks on all the checklists are complete, and your vision is realized. It starts slow. Very slow. But anything you learn or acquire, and anyone you meet, will help you later -- so the momentum really picks up once you get going. Just make a promise to youself that you will do things every single day that move you closer to your vision. Lots of people
want to have their own businesses, but not nearly as many are willing to work
every day at closing the gap between where they are now and where they want to be. If you are, you will.
Good luck!