Isn't litigation America's number one growth industry? I'm afraid if people quit suing each other, our entire economy might collapse (I'm writing that tongue-in-cheek).
Seriously, though, it's unrealistic for me to pledge not to sue anyone. I
am a strong advocate of talking one-to-one
first (as "a way of life" as you put it), because I believe most situations that turn into lawsuits for small businesses could be avoided if there was just better direct communication between the parties involved. That said, however, my business has valuable assets, and there will always be people who try to steal or misuse those assets. It's my job to protect the vested interests of my employees, customers, investors, and suppliers. So unless we revert back to the way rustlers were dealt with in the Old West, I'll have to rely on lawsuits when a "friendly chat" doesn't work.
I agree with dublincpa that a lot of the problem is juries. I get summoned for jury duty frequently, yet I rarely get selected for a panel. The reason (I think) is that plaintiff's attorneys can
easily find six or twelve other people who are much more willing than I am to feel sorry for their clients and blame somebody else.
You mentioned the occasional desire to return to the
Little House on the Prairie days. In that era, you might survive if you worked hard, helped your neighbors, and they helped you -- but then again, you might do everything right and die anyway. All you got was a chance, with no guarantees. A lot of small business owners today have that same pioneering spirit, but I'm not sure the average American citizen does. A lot of people seem to
expect guarantees, and if things don't work out, it
has to be someone's fault (other than theirs). I think that's where the root cause of this (and perhaps many other social and economic problems) lies.