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      <title>Do Women Hold and Advantage in Business?</title>
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In 1988, Linda Hollander was anything but wealthy. "Worse than broke" is how&lt;br /&gt;
she puts it. She was deep in debt, working at a dead-end job with people she&lt;br /&gt;
didn't like, and "always getting off at the jerk exit" of a highway filled with&lt;br /&gt;
abusive men. Her self-esteem was so low that she believed she was only getting&lt;br /&gt;
what she deserved. Fortunately, she had an epiphany and decided to make her&lt;br /&gt;
life count for something.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
With no formal business training, Linda and her lifelong best friend started&lt;br /&gt;
a successful packaging company called the Bag Ladies. Linda also started the&lt;br /&gt;
Women's Small Business Expo in Los&lt;br /&gt;
Angeles and wrote the #1 Amazon best seller Bags to&lt;br /&gt;
Riches: 7 Success Secrets for Women in Business. On our call, she shared the&lt;br /&gt;
seven secrets of success she used to create her prosperous small business and&lt;br /&gt;
build lifetime wealth.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;1. You've already got what it takes.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Linda believes the seeds of greatness are already inside you. You were born to&lt;br /&gt;
manifest greatness, live your purpose, and live your mission, she says. If&lt;br /&gt;
something stops you (and it's usually fear), face it head-on. Surround yourself&lt;br /&gt;
with a success team who support your vision.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Linda also believes that only one thing separates successful people from&lt;br /&gt;
those who merely dream about it: action. Knowledge is not power, she says;&lt;br /&gt;
taking action on knowledge is power. If you want to be successful, start with&lt;br /&gt;
an idea, get knowledge, and then take action.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;2. Your business is a lifetime self-improvement course.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
"School is never out for the pros," Linda believes. If you want to be&lt;br /&gt;
successful, practice lifetime learning. Go through life with the wide-eyed&lt;br /&gt;
innocence of a child who's willing to learn new things. If somebody talks about&lt;br /&gt;
a subject that you know a lot about, don't tune them out. You can always learn&lt;br /&gt;
something new. If you stop learning and growing--if you're not on top of your&lt;br /&gt;
industry--your competitors will fill in the gaps you're missing and take away&lt;br /&gt;
your business.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
As an employee, Linda learned a lot from her bosses--especially the bad&lt;br /&gt;
ones. "My bosses just did not treat people well," she recalls. "I made a vow&lt;br /&gt;
that . . . when I had my small business, I would treat people well, and treat&lt;br /&gt;
them with respect, and really treat them like family." Make your business a&lt;br /&gt;
lifetime self-improvement course for yourself and your employees. To give them&lt;br /&gt;
the best work experience they could ever have, answer their questions, never&lt;br /&gt;
lose your temper, and give them a sterling recommendation when they move on.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;3. A woman's yardstick is different than a man's.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Linda strongly suggests that you pay attention to the opposite sex, because we&lt;br /&gt;
can all learn from each other.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Women define success as living on their own terms and reaping internal&lt;br /&gt;
rewards, such as being able to spend time with the family, being able to do&lt;br /&gt;
what they want, and not having to worry about money. Women focus on connection&lt;br /&gt;
and relationships; that's their strength in business. By following their&lt;br /&gt;
example, you can learn to be more nurturing. Hone your business relationships,&lt;br /&gt;
be responsive, give your staff the power to handle complaints immediately, and&lt;br /&gt;
you'll develop lifetime customers.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Men define success more externally: getting the nice house, the nice car,&lt;br /&gt;
the toys, the gadgets. Men invest in themselves regularly and without apology.&lt;br /&gt;
Follow their lead and attend the high-priced seminars, hire the consultants,&lt;br /&gt;
and do what it takes to raise your skill sets and learn new things.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;4. Wealth only corrupts the corruptible.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Wealth doesn't corrupt you, it only exposes what you already are. Wealthy&lt;br /&gt;
people who are giving and benevolent were probably generous before they had&lt;br /&gt;
money; now that they have it, they can do even more. Watch out for media&lt;br /&gt;
messages-they'll try to convince you that wealthy people are greedy and&lt;br /&gt;
corrupt, but they rarely report the good things wealth can contribute.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;5. Selling is nurturing.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Fast-pitched sales presentations and scripts are a thing of the past. Today,&lt;br /&gt;
selling is about asking questions, listening more than you talk, hearing your&lt;br /&gt;
customer's pain, and providing brilliant solutions. If you don't feel&lt;br /&gt;
comfortable as a salesperson, give yourself a different title. Think of&lt;br /&gt;
yourself as a consultant, a nurturer, or a problem solver.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;6. The octopus is mightier than the elephant.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Most companies do what Linda calls "elephant marketing": a one-pronged approach&lt;br /&gt;
that mainly consists of waiting for the phone to ring and relying on referrals.&lt;br /&gt;
She recommends something quite different. "Octopus marketing," as Linda calls&lt;br /&gt;
it, is an elegant, streamlined, multi-pronged approach. Instead of waiting for&lt;br /&gt;
the phone to ring, try a variety of marketing methods, such as direct mailing,&lt;br /&gt;
e-mail blasts, and placing ads in many different vehicles (directories, the&lt;br /&gt;
Yellow Pages, print, radio, cable TV).&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;7. The heart weighs more than the wallet.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Linda's last success secret may be the most important. She says, "The people in&lt;br /&gt;
your life that you love are not interruptions on your success journey. If you&lt;br /&gt;
have to go to a play for your kid, if your husband or wife wants you to go away&lt;br /&gt;
for the weekend, this is what life's all about. Work is not what life is all&lt;br /&gt;
about. So just remember those people in your life that are your touchstones and&lt;br /&gt;
please don't miss your children growing up. Please don't miss time with your&lt;br /&gt;
friends and your family that you will never get back again."&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
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      <pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 17:58:39 GMT</pubDate>
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